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Internet Dating 101 For Baby Boomers
Safety Important When Searching For Mate Online
POSTED: 2:23 pm EDT September 18,
2008
UPDATED: 11:03 am EDT September 24,
2008
By Momie Tullottes, Contributing writerWith advances in technology and modern living, there are now many different ways to meet that special someone. Dating on the Internet has actually become quite popular among many age groups, including baby boomers.Web sites such as BabyBoomersSocialClub.com are popping up all over the Web. Sites like these are often fairly easy to navigate, making them pretty simple to use, even for those with minimal Internet skills.Dating as a baby boomer is not much different than dating at any other age. Many challenges are similar. Some baby boomers may feel hopeless about finding someone because of their age, but the Internet can make things much easier.
Getting Started
The first step to online dating is checking out different Web sites to see which one may be right for you. Some are going to require more than others as far as profiles, payment options and compatibility matching. There are online dating sites and social networks that charge a fee, as well as those that are free. Some may be more generalized, inviting anyone to join, while others may be geared to a specific interest or group, such as Christians or baby boomers.Some also have more security options regarding your personal online dating profile, as well as personalized compatibility matching. Visit plenty of sites so you can get a feel for various options and what you are looking for. Simply do a search for "online dating" or "Internet dating." For dating more geared to your age, try "baby boomer online dating" or "baby boomer dating."Creating Dating Profile
Once you have determined which online dating environment is best for you, it is time to create yourself online. This is called your online dating profile.A good profile should include enough information for a person to get an idea of the type of person you are, but not enough to figure out who you are or where you live.For example, if you live on Wescott's Beach and enjoy sailing on your private yacht, you might say, "I live near a beach and enjoy sailing as a hobby."This isn't too revealing, but it lets the person know what you like. Including one or two photos is also a good idea. Profiles with photographs get more attention than those without.Things You Should Know
Online dating can be similar to dating in person in many respects, but it also can be very different. For one thing, the methods of achieving your dating goals may vary slightly because of the nonexistence of in-person communication.According to SinglesGuide.org, there are several things a baby boomer should know about online dating.One tip is to get an idea of what you want. When you know what you want out of the relationship you are seeking, it is easier to find someone with the same outlook. For example, if you only want a fling, you don't want to be interacting with people who are more interested in serious relationships. Determining your own personal desires will save some time and stress for all involved.Safety is another important issue mentioned by SinglesGuide.org. Safety measures should be taken by the baby boomer both online and off when it comes to online dating.When creating your profile, never mention real phone numbers, exact locations, addresses, last names, or any other potentially identifying information. Scam artists can prey on a baby boomer at online dating sites, so be careful what you reveal through your profile, as well as through e-mail, chat or instant messaging.Even if you have been talking to someone for a while, safety rules should still apply. BabyBoomerCaretaker.com has more information.Meeting In Person
Before you walk down to that hot local spot or log onto TravelZoo.com to book that trip and meet someone in person, be sure you follow some safety guidelines.Safety offline, in regard to online dating, involves meeting places. If you are meeting someone that you only know from the Internet, SinglesGuide.org recommends meeting in a busy public place. Try making it a double date, with trusted friends as the other couple.If this isn't possible, always let a close family member or friend know where you are going and who you will be meeting. Do not meet at your house, workplace or other personally identifying location until you have seen this person a good number of times and feel comfortable disclosing the information.Remember that a person can seem nice and appear to have good intentions when that isn't the case. Always be on the lookout for warning signs.Is Online Dating Right For You?
Just like other methods of dating -- such as meeting in a night club -- are not right for every person, neither is online dating.Try browsing different online dating sites and social networks to get a feel for what goes on. You may even want to try it out for a little while.If, after applying the above advice, online dating still does not feel comfortable, it may not be right for you.Copyright 2008, Internet Broadcasting. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.
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